July 3

Self-Discipline, How to bring discipline in Life

Self-discipline begins with Mastering control on your own thoughts. If you don’t control what you think, you can’t control what you do.

Read Power of our thoughts… for mastering your thoughts.

Self-discipline is about controlling your desires and impulses while staying focused on what needs to get done to achieve your Goal.

You know most of us break the self-discipline everyday, that too before the day starts. It gets broke when we snooze our Alarm Clock.

If you want to get up at 6.40 in the morning set Alarm for 6.40 only, rather than setting at 6.30 and snoozing it for 10 minutes.

Self-discipline is when you are responding instead of reacting. – ©

So now let us discuss how to achieve self-discipline:

  • Become comfortable with discomfort. If you are in comfort zone then come out of comfort zone How?.. Read this …How to come out of comfort zone…
  • Visualize your success, which will make you stay focused towards your Goal.
  • Learn to manage your time by managing priorities – If you want to know how to manage priorities read my article Utilizing time effectively by Priority Management…
  • Do regular Mediation and exercise, this will increase your will – power, focus and concentration.
  • Learn to say NO, else you will be running out of time always.
  • Think before you make a commitment and and once you have made commitment then complete that commitment.
  • Know your weaknesses and try and improve on those weaknesses.
  • Set Goal in life and have an execution plan to achieve the same.
  • Challenge yourself, Start doing what you are afraid of doing.
  • Form some Good Habits, First you form habits and then habits forms you… Read my post on 30 habits which will make you successful…
  • Forgive yourself, learn from failure and move forward.
  • Have an attitude of gratitude.
  • Learn to forgive people, whether to forget or not is up to you.
  • Eat Healthy , Stay Healthy.
  • Early to bed and Early to rise

Will talk on benefits of self-discipline in next post.

How to discipline yourself
June 29

Top 7 Tips for a Powerful Mindset to Reach Your Goals [Re-blog]

I have recently came across this wonderful post by https://inspire99.com/ . The post talks about Top 7 Tips for a Powerful Mindset to Reach Your Goals.

These are the 7 tips:

  • Avoid Rationalizations – The excuses for not doing something
  • Make the dream realistic
  • Nourish your motivation for to reach your goals
  • Mentally prepare for the challenges of the goal
  • Address your doubts about the capability to reach your goals
  • Alternate choices and Plan B’s
  • Listen to Feedback

Read the full post to understand the thoughts of Author.In summary, these tips help you reassess yourself at each opportunity. A goal is a journey in constant motion. It cannot be a one-stop destination. Goals need to be constantly refined and modified as circumstances change.

Visit this post at below link and enjoy reading and do not forget to set your own Goals. Happy reading.

Top 7 Tips for a Powerful Mindset to Reach Your Goals
Top 7 Tips for a Powerful Mindset to Reach Your Goals

Reach your goals: A dream is one of the most fascinating gifts you can have. Even more powerful is the journey to reach your goals. One of the most common reasons which stand in the way of achieving our goals is the reasons we tell ourselves. 42 more words

Top 7 Tips for a Powerful Mindset to Reach Your Goals — Inspire 99

To achieve your dreams or goals of life you will need one most important skill “Discipline” read more about discipline at

Self-Discipline, How to bring discipline in Life

June 5

Invest in yourself and build a better life

The most guaranteed return you can get from any investment is “Investing in yourself”. Invest in yourself and you will get life changing returns.

Listed below are some key ways to start investing in yourself and changing your life for the better. Even if you only choose to follow a few of these ideas into your life, the positive effect will be very huge. So Invest in yourself and build a better life.

“Life is growth. If we stop growing, technically and spiritually, we are as good as dead.” ―Morihei Ueshiba

“Personal development is a major time-saver. The better you become, the less time it takes you to achieve your goals.” ―Brian Tracy

Lets see what all investment options you have to invest in yourself:

Read Books and Blog:

  • Read Book every day, at least 30 minutes if you are not getting much time.
  • You should read books or blog for developing your technical skills
  • Also read books and blogs which can guide you in life and help you in changing your life

Mastering Personal Finance:

  • Save your money
  • Invest your saved money
  • Manage expense from remaining money
  • Create a passive source of income

Socializing and Networking:

  • Have a firm handshake.
  • Choose your friends wisely
  • Stay in touch with family
  • Get rid of toxic and negative people
  • Seek feedback and work on improvement.
  • Visit friends and relatives when they are in hospital; you need only stay a few minutes.

Development of Mindset:

  • Practice Gratitude
  • Practice Meditation
  • Challenge yourself
  • Do not expect life to be fair
  • Stop taking everything personally
  • Use positive self – talk because you become what you think.

Things to do for peace of mind:

  • Give people a second chance, but NOT a third.
  • Forget your past and focus on today.
  • Always Smile; you do not own all the problems of the World.
  • Forgive yourself and other so that you can set yourself free.
  • Learn to let go things.
  • Stop taking everything personally.

Practice Gratitude:

  • Have a habit of saying thanks
  • Write down three things you are grateful for everyday
  • Never waste an opportunity to tell people you love them.

Health is Wealth

  • Exercise
  • Eat Healthy
  • Drink warm water.
  • Learn cooking and cook for yourself
  • Early to bed and early to rise

Invest in yourself for your Future:

  • Find a Mentor
  • Start a New hobby
  • Learn a new language
  • Set Goals
  • Focus on your strengths and work on your weaknesses.

Time and Energy Management:

  • Stop procrastinating
  • Manage your time better
  • Always have to do list and stay focused on it.
  • Stick to your routine
  • Learn to say NO without feeling guilty.

Invest in habit for yourself:

  • Challenge yourself to leave a bad habit
  • Develop few new habits for your success
  • Compliment the meal when you are a guest in someone’s home.

Invest in yourself and be Modest:

  • A lot was accomplished before you were born.
  • Remember no one makes it alone.
  • Have a grateful heart and be quick to acknowledge those who helped and loved you.

Explore something New:

  • Travel and explore the world and new culture
  • Explore something new in yourself
  • Be creative

Invest in yourself to take care of yourself:

  • You cannot pour from empty cup, Take care of yourself first.
  • If it feels wrong do not do it.
  • If you want to say no do not say may be.
  • Do not be a people-pleaser.
  • Be kind to yourself.
  • Do not be afraid to say Yes / No.
  • You are not required to set yourself on fire to keep other people warm.

Conclusion and way forward:

So these many are the options available for you so that you can Invest in yourself and make a better life. These will give you life long returns. Start with trying few of these options and observe the difference. Most of these options are very much known to us, but we do not try to apply them in our life. So this post will work you as a reminder to apply these in the life now.

You can find detailed post on many of these topics on my blog just search with particular keywords and read more about the topic. If you want me to make a detailed write up on any of the topic let me know in the comment section.

30 habits which will make you successful…

Habits that reduces our productivity, focus and efficiency

Gratitude in our Life Analysis with few Questions

How to develop Social skills…

Invest in yourself to get life changing returns.

June 1

You will treat yourself better after reading this

Sometime we just wonder that what is happening with me is a general thing and happens with other people or is it just happening with me only. Today I have tried to make a list of things if this is happening with you It’s Okay and it’s perfectly fine, it’s happen with everyone.

It’s Okay:

To make mistakes,
however learn from it.

To be emotional,
but do not let someone take advantage of it.

If you are overthinking it,
most of us do, just try to come out of it as soon as possible.

To have bad days,
this does not mean you have bad life.

To say “No”,
this will save time and energy, which you can use for saying “Yes” to important things.

If you struggle to stay positive,
but keep trying your best to achieve positivity.

If your approach is different,
these types of people only makes the difference.

To be less than perfect,
as you know “done is better than perfect”.

To have problems in life,
fun is in solving the problem not avoiding it.

If you feel confused,
give yourself, some time and you will get direction.

If no one is with you,
but you be with yourself and change your life.

To have some bad past,
but it should not affect your present and future.

If you feel exhausted today,
rest and re-energize yourself for tomorrow.

If you are behind your friends,
as everyone has their own time zone.

To wait,
no need to figure out everything right now.

To rest,
but do not quit the Game.

If you miss your old self,
but do not lose focus on today and tomorrow.

To fail,
failure always occurs before success.

To forgive and forget,
this will give you mental peace.

If you are a work in progress,
at least you are progressing not standstill.

It's Okay
What is Okay in Life


Manish Malu

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May 26

Life changing advice by Quotes – Series… 3

You are a limited edition unless you are limiting yourself by self created limitations.

You are a limited edition unless you are limiting yourself by self created limitations.

If something goes wrong, don’t blame your luck, think of other options.

You are born to live not living because you are born. That’s the importance of Goal.

It’s okay if you are a work in progress, good things take time.

If you always put others first, you are teaching them that you come second. Self-care is important.

Failure is not opposite of success, it is ladder to success.

Let other people doubt you, but you don’t doubt yourself.

You are powerful only when you know that you are powerful.

If removing something or someone from your life makes you happy then go for it.

Dreaming leads to thoughts.
Thoughts leads to action.
Actions leads to fulfillment of dreams.

Other Part of this series:

Life changing advice by Quotes – Series… 1

Life changing advice by Quotes – Series… 2