Category: Knowing self

Happy New Year… Few resolutions for 2020

New Year is the time for life changing decisions that bring about a complete overhaul in our life. A time for resolutions and trying to take charge of things and bring about changes that we always desired.

We cannot ring in the New Year by thinking about disappointments and unrealized dreams of yesterday. Fill up the thoughts on New Year’s Day with not about what we have attempted but failed in realizing but in things that are still possible to achieve.

It is never too late to bring in the change that we always want to see around us. Let this New Year be the one that will see you being at the forefront of introducing new ideas and new concepts to make the world a better and safer place.

Wishing you and your family a very Happy New Year 2020…!!

Make some of these as your resolutions

– Spend less time with mobile than you spent in 2019

– Spend more time with books than you spent in 2019

– Make time for exercise.

– Spend more time talking to your loved ones and spending more time with them than you spent in 2019

– Start a new hobby so that you can learn new things.

– Express more to people that you care for them and you appreciate their care, concern, affection and love and warmth

– will use natural resources with more responsibility

– I will not compare myself with others.

– will give more love and care to those around than I did in 2019

– I will not force myself in being something which my inner self will regret later for

Plz add your resolutions in comment to motivate other readers….


Manish Malu


Learning about Life from Ad Slogans… Part 3

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Learning about Life from Ad Slogans…Part 1

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Learning about Life from Ad Slogans… Part 2

1. Airtel   : Express Yourself

We must learn to express ourselves. Most of the time we have many things to say, but we fail to express ourselves. This could be because of lack of self – confidence, thinking that what other will say.

Please keep in mind that “ To gain knowledge, we must learn to ask the right questions; and to get answers, we must act, not wait for answers to occur to us.”

 2. LIC: Zindagi ke Saath bhi, zindagi ke baad bhi

We must live such a life that people remember us during our life as well as after our life got over.

3. Airtel– Kyun ki har ek friend jaruri hota hai


4. Head & Shoulders: You never get a second chance to make a first impression.

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10 things you will regret…

10 Things You Will Surely Regret When You Grow Older, Unless You Change Now
Time is ticking, life is passing. Friends leave, people die, promises break. What is left of you is your own heart, and nothing can feel worse than having an unhappy one. An old body and a disappointed soul – is that the kind of regret you can afford?

1. Not travelling when you had the time, age and resources. Saving up for later, delaying, waiting for the right time – it isn’t coming.

2. Staying in a bad relationship. One thing about those, no matter how long you stretch them, at one point they snap. Who will make up for the lost time?

3. Not doing things you love, because you care too much about what other people think. People pass. Time passes. Your unhappy heart will stay.

4. Not telling people you love them. Your big crush, your parents, that mentor. Let them know, they’re not going to be around forever, and neither will you.

5. Working too hard and too much for something that doesn’t matter enough. Just imagine how your old body will mourn the lost youth and energy. Times you could have been happy.

6. Not spending enough time with your parents. I don’t want to explain this one, but realize what’s happening.

7. Not quitting that terrible, no-growth job. Just …WHY? If you KNOW you have the skills & the potential, why not just GO out and give it a shot?

8. Not taking that one big risk that could have changed your life. Was the possible loss greater than the disappointment of not knowing “What If?”

9. Not saying that one sorry. Not letting go of your ego knowing you’ve been wrong. The regret is yuuuuuuge.

10. Lastly, not realizing how beautiful you are. You don’t deserve to take sh!t from ANYONE. You have ONE life, spend it being a damned fairy.

Good Night.. Take care…

If you want success, Stop being Average

If you’re not doing things that scare you, then you’re going to be average for the rest of your life.

If people are not laughing at your Goals, you certainly needs to revise them.

Now let’s discuss how to become great from Average:

  1. Take Action – Most of the people don’t take action and they wonder every day that there life is not in their control.
  2. Drop the excuses – Don’t say what if or I can’t, you should be honest with yourself and always try to address the areas you need to improve on.
  3. Reading Book every day – If you are not getting much time read at least half an hour.
  4. Leave your comfort Zone – You can only grow when you keep yourself challenging. I have already wrote three detailed post on the topic of comfort zone. Title and link of the post are given below, Go and read them.

Comfort Zone is Danger Zone

How to come out of comfort Zone

Life outside your comfort Zone

5. Learn something new at regular interval. This could be related to your vocation or profession or it could be anything small or big, but try and learn something new.

6. Set Goals – One need to have Goals in Life, else you will be wondering every day where life is going. I will try and create a couple of post on Goal setting very soon.

7.Unlock your full potentials – Everybody has some unique talent and potential to become great, only thing is to identify and unlock your potential. Wanna know how to unleash your hidden potential read this post explaining in detail each and every aspect of how you can unleash you hidden potential.

How to unleash your hidden potentials

8.Celebrate Small Success: This is very common thing which people often forgets. We should celebrate our each and every success be it very small or big.

9.Few quick one liners to give you a perspective and food for thoughts:

Don’t watch TV. TV controls us although Remote is in our hand.

Welcome the criticism and work on improving yourself.

Surround yourself with Great people, from whom you can learn new things.

Do regular exercise and eat healthy, Keep yourself fit and active.

Don’t complain no one likes it. Read more at Click here

Trying to make everyone happy, trust me you can’t. Try and make yourself happy, trust me you can.

One who blames others in Life, had given Remote Control of his / her life to someone else.

Don’t accept other people’s definition of life. It’s your life you have to define it.

You are born to Live not living because you are born.

In life you should have endless hope and not hopeless end. So Set Goals and define your life.

Don’t snooze your alarm, this is the very first thing which we only decided and not doing it. Think again. Fulfill your own commitment to yourself.

Improve yourself instead of proving yourself.

This list of one liners will go on and on, if you want me to write more of this let me know, will create another post for this.

Thanks for reading, now time to take action. Best of Luck….


Manish Malu

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What is Maturity…


  • Maturity is when you accept people for who they are.


  • Maturity is when you stop trying to change others …instead focus on changing yourself.


  • Maturity is when you understand that everyone is right in their own perspective.


  • Maturity is when you understand that your ideas are not always the best.


  • Maturity is when you stop proving to the world how intelligent you are.


  • Maturity is when you stop comparing with others.


  • Maturity is when you stop attaching “happiness” to material things.


  • Maturity is when you focus on positives in people.


  • Maturity is when you don’t seek approval from others.