Why People Don’t appreciate, your response when you feel unappreciated

Have you ever felt that you are doing your best, but people are still not appreciating? If yes, then you must understand why people don’t appreciate it.

We often think that, I am doing my Best, but nobody is appreciating it. I am doing many things for him / her yet, He / She is not noticing or appreciating it. The question here is why people don’t appreciate.

Few of the general question comes to anyone’s mind on appreciation are:

  • I am doing everything, however by Boss / Manager never appreciate me.
  • Why my Colleagues never appreciate my work?
  • What should I do to get appreciation?
  • Why don’t people appreciate?
  • My Manager / Boss does not appreciate me.
  • Why I am not getting any appreciation?
  • What to do if I am not getting appreciated for my work?
  • What to do if I am not getting noticed?
  • How to gain appreciation?
  • How can I appreciate others?
  • What to do when you don’t feel valued at work?
  • How to treat people who don’t appreciate the things you do for them?
  • How to stay Motivated while feeling unappreciated or underappreciated?
  • What to do when you don’t feel unappreciated or undervalued at work?

So Friends I will try to answer all of the above questions. Let’s start the journey.

Appreciating and Complimenting others is an Etiquette which people often fail to understand.

Different people have different reasons for not appreciating or complementing others. Some might feel a little shy in speaking up, some feel that their opinion doesn’t matter, some do not even have the sensibility of appreciating others while some hesitate because their appreciation is not acknowledged.

Reason why people don’t appreciate others:

1. EGO: People feel that if they appreciate another person they admit that he/she is better than them and their arrogance and ego never allows it.

2. Jealousy: People simply don’t appreciate another person, because they think that they would have done this better than that person.

3. Shyness: Few people by nature are very shy, even if these types of people really want to appreciate you, they are not able to appreciate.

4. People are not appreciating you because you are not appreciating them.So few people think that I will appreciate that person only when that person first appreciate me.

5. They must be appreciating others: It’s not like people are not appreciating at all, they might be appreciating others but not you. Try and find out the reason, why they are not appreciating you, if you want to.

6. Appreciation getting not acknowledged: Like you feel that your work is not getting noticed or appreciated, people also feel that their appreciation is not getting acknowledged. This is the reason people think twice before appreciating others.

7. Does my appreciation matters: Few people also thinks that whether their opinion or appreciation matters to that person or not. If they feel it does not matter to other person, they will not appreciate.

What we should do if people don’t appreciate us:

Don’t think too much on it, ignore it.

You can only do your best. And if they can’t appreciate that, it’s their problem, not yours. You keep doing good work for yourself because you were not doing that for others or just for want of appreciation.

Self – appreciation:

We should appreciate ourselves, if we don’t appreciate ourselves, how someone else will. And most important thing is that self – appreciation is in our own control.

If you are not getting what you want check what you are giving. ©

So we must think and analyze whether we are appreciating people enough or not. Start appreciating people genuinely and it will come back to you for sure.

It’s Okay if people don’t appreciate

Do not think that you are good or talented only when someone notices you or appreciates you. you keep doing your good work whether people notices it or not.

Be proud of yourself

Be proud of yourself that you continue to do good things in-spite of being ignored. Very few people can do this. Notice that whether your performance is improving from last time or not. If you can notice and appreciate your own progress that is the best compliment you can ever get.

Getting appreciation is not the prime motive

Appreciation should not be the prime motive for you to take up a task. Do it out of self interest and appreciate your own work. Appreciation can be a by product of doing good work, it should not be your main product or main objective.

Why People don't appreciate
Analysis of reasons why people don’t appreciate

Read this post from Karlien on her blog

Make yourself proud

Six Rules to live an attractive and meaningful Life

Today let us discuss Six Rules to live an attractive and meaningful Life. These six rules are further made up of six sub rules so that we can understand each rule perfectly.

Hello friends, today let us discuss Six Rules to live an attractive and meaningful Life. These six rules are further made up of six sub rules so that we can understand each rule perfectly.

Rule 1: Six things that will destroy you:

  1. Your Ego
  2. Bad Friends or Negative People around you.
  3. Negativity inside you
  4. Always thinking what other will say or always listening to others
  5. Loving only materialistic things
  6. Bad Habits or Bad Addictions

Rule 2: Six Rules which will help you win in Life:

  1. Set a Goal for your life
  2. Stay Honest and Humble
  3. Leave your comfort zone, as you will grow outside your comfort zone only.
  4. Compare yourself to old you and not with others
  5. Reading books and learning new skills
  6. Never Quit

Rule 3: Six enemies to your productivity:

  1. Watching TV or browsing Social Media more than required
  2. Trying to do multitasking
  3. Saying Yes to everything and every task
  4. Procrastination
  5. Trying to be perfectionist.
  6. Worrying and No action.

I have already written a detailed post on this you can read that at Habits that reduces our productivity, focus and efficiency

Rule 4: Six rules to Live a happy Life:

  1. Don’t worry
  2. Don’t Hate
  3. Give more
  4. Expect Less
  5. Live simply
  6. Have Goal / purpose in Life.

Rule 5: Six things to give up as early as possible:

  1. Toxic and Negative People
  2. Negative thoughts and self-doubt
  3. Making excuses
  4. Living in the past
  5. Trying to please everyone
  6. Fear of failure or fear of change.

I have written a detailed post on Knowing what is Fear is important than how to overcome . read this post to conquer any of your fear.

Rule 6: Six hobbies for a perfect Life:

  1. One to make money
  2. One to keep yourself creative
  3. another to keep yourself Fit
  4. One to build knowledge
  5. One to evolve your mindset
  6. last but not the least one to serve the Society
Six Rules to Live a attractive Life
Six Rules to Live a meaningful Life

Life changing advice by Quotes – Series… 13

You are the programmer of your life, write your own program.

Politeness has become so rare that some people mistake it for flirting.

Your result do not decide that you are a loser or not, but your efforts does.

If a person doubts even in your good deeds, then let them do it. because the doubt is always on the purity of the gold and not on the soot of the coal.

one who is ready to try new things, ready to fail, achieves success.

If you Love what you are doing, you will be successful.

Walking with a friend in the dark is better than walking alone in the light.

Today I will do what others won’t, So tomorrow I can achieve what others can’t.

You are born to be the “CEO of your life”, don’t be an employee to follow what people say.

Learn from your last mistake and do not repeat it. Making new one is fine.

Few other part of the series

Life changing advice by Quotes – Series… 3

Life changing advice by Quotes – Series… 4

Life changing advice by Quotes – Series… 5

Life changing advice by Quotes – Series… 12

In this era of mobile and social media, Setting up an “alarm for sleeping” is important than for waking up. ©

A Goal without deadline is just a wish.

Nothing changes if Nothing changes.

Courage is not the absence of fear, it is the willingness to act in spite of fear.

Do not give up. If you don’t finish, someone else will.

Be part of the solution, Not part of the problem.

Life is about making some things to happen, Not waiting for something to happen.

Someday, somehow, everything will make sense, till then keep going. ©

If you are always trying to be normal, You will never know how amazing you can be.

Our behavior is a function of our decisions, not our conditions.

Appreciate the beauty of imperfection as an opportunity for growth.

Few other part of the series

Life changing advice by Quotes – Series… 3

Life changing advice by Quotes – Series… 4

Life changing advice by Quotes – Series… 5

Life changing advice by Quotes – Series… 11

Know your limits and capabilities, so that you can go beyond them.

What you do today will decide, The difference between who you are and who you want to become.

It’s nice to be important. But it’s more important to be nice!

Change the outlook, change your world.

For things to change, you must change your beliefs and mindset.

For things to get better, you need to get better.

Believe in luck, but do not rely solely on it.

If it is to be, it is up to me. “Attitude for success” ©

Admission of ignorance is first step towards learning. Don’t ignore your ignorance.

“We have two lives, and the second begins when we realize we only have one” – Confucius

Recognize your self-worth and stop giving discounts to peoples. ©

If you have the courage to start you can succeed. ©

Few other part of the series

Life changing advice by Quotes – Series… 3

Life changing advice by Quotes – Series… 4

Life changing advice by Quotes – Series… 5