We often think that, I am doing my Best, but nobody is appreciating it. I am doing many things for him / her yet, He / She is not noticing or appreciating it. So let’s analyze why people don’t appreciate.
Reason why people don’t appreciate others:
- EGO: People feel that if they appreciate another person they admit that he/she is better than them and their arrogance and ego never allows it.
- Jealousy: People simply don’t appreciate another person, because they think that they would have done this better than that person.
- Shyness: Few people by nature are very shy, even if these types of people really want to appreciate you, they are not able to appreciate.
- People are not appreciating you because you are not appreciating them.So few people think that I will appreciate that person only when that person first appreciate me.
- They must be appreciating others: It’s not like people are not at all appreciating, they might be appreciating others but not you. Try and find out the reason, why they are not appreciating you, if you want to.
What we should do if people don’t appreciate us:
- Don’t think too much on it, ignore it.
You can only do your best. And if they can’t appreciate that, it’s their problem, not yours.
- Self – appreciation: We should appreciate ourselves, if we don’t appreciate ourselves, how someone else will. And most important thing is that self – appreciation is in your control.
- If you are not getting what you want check what you are giving. © Manish Malu.
So we must think and analyze whether we are appreciating people enough or not.
- Do not think that you are good or talented only when someone notices you or appreciates you.
- Be proud of yourself that you continue to do good things in – spite of being ignored. Very very few people do this.
- Appreciation should not be the prime motive for you to take up a task. Do it out of self interest and appreciate your own work.
In the next post we will discuss how we should appreciate others.
Here I want to add one thing which is very important that here at wordpress people genuinely appreciate each other.
Keep up this spirit.
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