May 25

Some Mistakes of Life – Ignoring what you can control…

Everyone wants their life to be simple, happy and peaceful, for this you need to take control of your own Life. For this you need to control the things which control your life.

Focus on what you can control and leave what you can’t.

So what you are suppose to control is this, Here is the list of things which you can control:

  1. Your own thoughts.
  2. Your mental and physical health.
  3. Your sleep.
  4. Being honest.
  5. Being Loyal.
  6. Saying Thank you.
  7. Your positive attitude.
  8. Your anger (Yes you can control your anger)
  9. Not Judging people.
  10. How much time you spend with your family.
  11. Money you spend.
  12. Leaving Bad habits.
  13. Smile on your face.
  14. Appreciating and being happy about what you have.
  15. Responding rather than reacting.
  16. How well you listen.
  17. Your Attitude.
  18. Our commitment.
  19. Learning new things.
  20. Your perspective / Your view point.
  21. Expressing your feeling.
  22. …. This list goes on and on you can add and make your list.

My point here is why we should worry about the things which we can’t control, when we have so much of things, which we can control.

So next time when you have any problem put it in to one of the two bucket i.e. Controllable or Uncontrollable.

  • If your problem is in the bucket of controllable, it should not spend much time there, you should do something about it and solve it because it is controllable.
  • If your problem is in the bucket of uncontrollable, means you cannot do anything about it, so you need not worry about it, because your worry will not make it controllable.

Thanks for reading…

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Manish Malu 2019

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Posted May 25, 2019 by Manish Malu in category "Attitude", "Change", "Learning", "Life

About the Author

By profession I am a Chartered Accountant, working in MNC. Book Reading is my passion, I normally read Books related to Self-development, Motivation, Leadership, Spirituality etc and reads blogs and watch Videos on these topics. The sprit to share the learned knowledge, brought me here so that I can write blogs and inspire myself and others with my work.


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      1. By Ria on

        Sorry didn’t have any words for the post..

      2. By Manish Malu on

        Your πŸ‘ had given me so much words of appreciation in itself… 😊😊

      3. By Ria on

        You’re a very good person that’s why your saying so..

      4. By Manish Malu on

        Thank you so much dear…😊😊 But believe me when I saw πŸ‘ My mind was reading it as comment automatically..😊😊

      5. By Manish Malu on

        Hehehe… Right… This time it’s okay… Next time u will get punishment…😊😊

      6. By Manish Malu on

        Why you are afraid of punishment, when you know that you are not gonna do mistake…😊😊

      7. By Ria on

        It can be that I do forget by mistake!! I’m a human tooπŸ™ˆ

      8. By Ria on

        For what? I haven’t done anything. I should be saying thanks to you for being so kind and big hearted not you..

      9. By Ria on

        Did I just said something opposite?πŸ˜πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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        πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚I’m proud of myself πŸ˜œπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

      11. By Ria on

        Your post is flooding with my comment.. I guess I should stop now

      12. By Ria on

        Cause I must leave some space for other bloggers to comment as well 😁

      13. By Ria on

        πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ right but it’s not something which can go on forever..

      14. By Ria on

        By the way it’s your comment section to get feedback not a place to talk.. don’t forget that 😝

      15. By Manish Malu on

        Ya true… But this is the only place where we can talk right… 😊😊

      16. By Manish Malu on

        BTW.. you had made 100 + comments .. this was 101… 😊😊

        Thank you so much for being so interactive with me and my posts… 😊😊

      17. By Ria on

        Yup! Cause I’m not well.. maybe will do next week or so

      18. By Manish Malu on

        Take Care Dear…. you didn’t told me…

        Please take rest now… Good Night.. Take Care.. Have a nice sleep…

      19. By Ria on

        Gd morning. I’m quite better now. Thanks for asking..

  3. By Bhavna Saurabh Sharma on

    Yes Very well said.
    Do your best and then don’t worry and waste your energy on things you can’t control. Have the courage to accept inevitable too.


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