May 2

Do not complain in Life… No one likes it…

We all have a habit of complaining either to self or to people around us. Have you ever thought about what people will be thinking about you when you have a complaining nature? No one likes it so Do not complain.

People won’t have time for you if you are always angry and complaining.

Complaining not only ruins everybody else’s  day, it ruins the complainer’s day too. The more we complain, the more unhappy we get.

On average a person complains about 15-20 times in a day… Why people Complain:

  • To start a conversation, strange but it’s true.
  • Complaining is also used as a way to provoke others to switch loyalties. e.g. “Don’t listen to him, He is good for nothing.
  • To pre-excuse poor performance, behaviour or inaction.
  • People complain about difficulties of a situation or task to remove themselves from taking responsibility.

Think before complaining… below statement will help you in thinking that…

  • We are born crying that is natural, but don’t live complaining and die disappointed.
  • If you have time to complain about something then you have the time to do something about it.
  • Try to go 24 hours without complaining. (Not even once). Then watch how your life starts changing.

You complain that you don’t have good branded shoes, there are people who don’t have feet.

  • Spending today complaining about yesterday won’t make tomorrow any better.

What if you woke up today with only the things you thanked God for yesterday. So stop complaining and start appreciating what you have.


Read my post on The Art of questioning, why we should ask question

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Posted May 2, 2020 by Manish Malu in category "Attitude", "Change", "Life", "Love and Relationship

About the Author

By profession I am a Chartered Accountant, working in MNC. Book Reading is my passion, I normally read Books related to Self-development, Motivation, Leadership, Spirituality etc and reads blogs and watch Videos on these topics. The sprit to share the learned knowledge, brought me here so that I can write blogs and inspire myself and others with my work.


  1. By The Strong Traveller on

    Hey, a great post at the right time. I just hear so many people complaining about so many things. I know even I sometimes end up doing it subconsciously.

    I went through some of your posts and comments from which I got to know you like reading books and so do I. So that’s why I have a question for you. If you could recommend just 1 book to me, what would it be?

    Best wishes from The Strong Traveller and have a great day

    Do check out my blog. There is some travel and lifestyle content which you may find interesting. We try to come up with new and interesting things every day. Do follow if you like it 🙂

    1. By Manish Malu (Post author) on

      Thank you so much for appreciation and detailed feedback..
      Book recommendation will be..
      7 habits of highly successful people
      Second will be attitude is everything..

      1. By Manish Malu (Post author) on

        Great.. and you may read few more post on my blog and share your valuable feedback.. if you want I can give you link of few of my best post…

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  4. By aditi_capricorn on

    Omg if I think of it, yeah we really do complain and this is a habit we must change. Thanks for the post.🙂

  5. By Ria on

    Hey, I wanna ask you something that from where do you read all these motivational stuffs? All your post are too good and motivating. Great job

    1. By Manish Malu on

      Hi.. Thank you so much for your appreciation…
      I keep reading motivational Book, watch Motivational videos… When I write my post I keep researching for the topic on internet… add what I have read in Books … some personal experience and thoughts… and I try to keep my post simple and casual…
      The combination of all these become my post …
      Hope dear .. I have answered your question..
      Thanks again…

      1. By Ria on

        Oh great!! Which author’s book do you follow most?? I do read Robin Sharma, Shiv Khera, Rhonda Byern and Lousie Hay’s book mostly. Actually I wanna know other Authors too.. and sorry to bother you with my questions.!!

      2. By Manish Malu on

        First of all you are not at all bothering me… We Learn when we exchange our ideas….
        I don’t read author specific… I choose topic… Till now I have read… Power of subconscious mind… How to influence people and win friends… Think and grow rich… Attitude is everything… Currently reading unlimited power…😊😊

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