— Be soft and cool like water, so you can adjust anywhere in life. Be tough and attractive like a diamond, so no one can play with your emotion.
—Life is not an iPod with which you listen to your favourite songs. It is a radio; you must adjust yourself to every frequency to enjoy whatever comes in it.
—Life is like having a cup of coffee. You sit by the window, take a sip and find no sugar… Too lazy to go for the sugar, you somehow manage with that sugarless cup … On finishing, you discover undissolved sugar crystals settled at the bottom. That’s how life is… We do not make any effort to value what is around or within us… So look around, may the sweetness you are looking for is closer than you think.
—Read this slowly – ‘lifeisnowhere’. What did you read? ‘Life is nowhere’ or ‘life is now here’? Just a beautiful line to say life depends on the way we look at it.
—To sum up :
Don’t go where life takes you. But take life where you want to go. Always remember you are born to live and not living because you are born.
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You can’t pour from empty cup, Take care of yourself first.
Be yourself no matter what. Some will adore you and some will hate everything about you. But who cares.
If it doesn’t involve you, it should not concern you.
You are Not required to set yourself on fire to keep other people warm.
Steps to self care:
In How to give and receive feedback… Part 1… we have discussed and analyzed what is feedback and how to give feedback.
Now in this section we will discuss the most important part of feedback i.e. How to receive feedback.
If nobody is giving you feedback, it means they are giving your feedback to someone else and which is not at all good for you.
You must analyze why you are not getting direct feedback. Have you done something in past, due to which they are not giving you direct feedback.
निंदक नियरे राखिए, ऑंगन कुटी छवाय, बिन पानी, साबुन बिना, निर्मल करे सुभाय।
Keep your critiques close to you, let their hut be in your courtyard,
That way you don’t need soap n water to cleanse your nature,
Tips for receiving feedback effectively:
Click here to read some mistakes that we often make in Life, Now lets discuss one of them in details:
Too much caring about what other will think.
Caring about what people think about you is useless. Most people don’t even know what They think of themselves.
What other people think of you is none of your business, perhaps they have extra time , but you don’t.
” Life is a game of 3 parts.
In the first part, you wonder what people think about you..
In the second part, you don’t care what people think about you..
It is in the third and final part, you realize that, people were never thinking about you anyway...”
How to stop worrying about what people will think.
“Our true character is most accurately measured by how we treat those who can do nothing for us.