Category: Values

Quotes on Love, Dream, Success, Attitude etc. to understand Life

Quotes on Love, Dream, Success, Attitude etc. to understand Life. and Best Happiness and Life Tips. Let us understand Life by Quotes.

Understanding Life by Quotes

Quotes on Understanding:

No one is perfect that is why understanding is important.

Understanding is deeper than knowledge. There are many people who know you, but there are very few who understand you.

Quotes on Love:

There is only one happiness in this life, to love and be loved.

Moreover, the importance of love in our life is that it washes away the dust of loneliness from your heart.

Quotes on Time:

Some talk to you in their free time and some free their time to talk to you. Learn the difference.

The best time to start was yesterday. The next best time is now.

Relationship:

Everyone wants to improve relationship, but they want other person should start first.

One day we will forget each other, if we think why I should contact them, if they do not contact me.

Dreams:

If you don’t build your dream someone else will hire you to help them build their.

Follow your dreams instead of following others.

Success:

Success isn’t about how much money you make; it’s about the difference you make in people’s life. and

If you have strong commitment to your goals and dreams, if you wake up every day with a passion to do your job, everything is possible.

Attitude:

A bad attitude is like flat tire, If you don’t change it you’ll never go anywhere.

You know, Life is 10% of what happens to you and 90% of how you react to it.

Smile:

A good life is when you smile often, dream big, laugh a lot, and realize how blessed you are for what you have.

Let your smile change the world but don’t let the world change your smile.

Trust:

Trust is the glue of life. It’s the most essential ingredient in effective communication. It’s the foundational principle the hold all relationships.

Never trust someone that let you down more than two times. Once was a warning, twice was a lesson and anything more than that is taking advantage.

Funny and Sarcasm:

Life is too short to keep unnecessary:

Apps in your phone

Feeling in your heart

People in your life

Uninstall.

If people say something bad about you, judge you as if they know you, don’t feel bad just remember Dogs barks if they don’t know the person.

Read my post on

Know and understand yourself… Self-Awareness

Learning about Life from Ad Slogans…Part 2

When we watch television, we normally avoid Ads. However, if you watch the ad slogans carefully and listen there slogans, gives us Learning about life.

When we watch television we normally avoid watching Advertisements. However, if you watch the advertisement carefully and listen there slogans, many of the Ad slogan gives us Learning about life. We can apply those little slogans in our life and we can surely improve our life.

Read the part 1 at

Learning about Life from Ad Slogans part 1

Now we move on to part 2 of this. I have brought some more Ad slogans, so that we can learn about life in more details:

1. Zurich – “Because Change Happens”

“The world as we have created it is a process of our thinking. It cannot be changed without changing our thinking.”

― Albert Einstein

“Yesterday I was clever, so I wanted to change the world. Today I am wise, so I am changing myself.”

― Rumi

 Read more at:

you have to change

 2. Idea : An Idea can Change your life:

Yes… you need an idea to change your life completely. Undoubtedly that idea should be followed by action to make that happen in real life.

Watch this wonderful video and bring your idea into action because an idea can change your life:

3. Videocon : Experience Change:

In life change is inevitable, change is constant, how you deal with it makes the difference.

Watch this wonderful video how experiencing and embracing change can bring miracle in your life:

4. L’Oreal – “Because You’re Worth It”

Your value doesn’t decrease based on someone’s inability to see your worth.

Learn about life from Ad Slogans

5. Nokia : Connecting People

We are social animals who need friends. We need a community to survive. Friends are made on the basis of trust, which only grows if you are kind to people. Exploiting, cheating and bullying others will win you no friends. Kindness and compassion gives rise to self-confidence, which in turn empowers you to be honest, truthful and transparent. This self-confidence brings peace of mind, which also favors good health.

  • Dalai Lama

Read an article on how to make friend or people like you

How to manage people

 6. Mountain Dew– Daar ke Aagey jeet hai

“Beyond fear there is victory”

There is only one thing that makes a dream impossible to achieve: The fear of failure.

Don’t be afraid to fail, be afraid not to try…. Because “Daar ke Aagey Jeet hai.

Don’t let the fear of losing be greater than the excitement of winning. – Robert Kiosaki.

7. Canon : You can:

Believe you can and you are halfway there.

You can do anything. You can be anything you want to be. As long as you believe in yourself and work hard.

 8. Nike – “Just Do It”

“So if you can dream it, you can do it, so why to wait Just do it.”

Learn about life from Ad Slogans

9. Energizer – “It Keeps Going, and Going, and Going…”

It’s a very motivating slogan, in life we should keep going and going, we should never stop.

Keep going everything you need will come to you at perfect time.

Believe in yourself, take on your challenges, dig deep within yourself to conquer failure. Never let anyone bring you down. You got to keep going.

10. Alto : Lets Go.

So now you know the importance of change, importance of an idea and why conquering fear is important. So now we should follow the slogan of Alto Lets Go. Lets go and lets try our best to change our life from today itself.

Best of Luck!!

Disclaimer: I have just tried to apply these Ad slogans to understand life principal. I have no intention to promote or demote any brand or company.

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Manish Malu

Understanding Self-Control, a skill must for Success in Life

If you cannot control yourself and your emotions, you cannot succeed in life. Understanding Self-control is very important. Let us look what we can control.

Self-control is often used to describe a favorable character trait in people. The word is used frequently, but what exactly is Self-control, and why is it important? Let us today try and understand self-control in detail and also we will understand what we can control and what we cannot control. So let us start with understanding the meaning of Self-control.

Understanding Self-control:

Dictionary Meaning:

the ability to control oneself, in particular one’s emotions and desires, especially in difficult situations.

In other words, Self-Control is an ability to monitor and regulate one’s own emotions and desires in any tempting situations. It is also an ability to regulate and follow one’s own thoughts under any circumstances.

Quotes on Understanding Self-control:

The difference between want and need is self-control.
When you have control over your thoughts, you have control over your life.
Knowing yourself is Wisdom, controlling yourself is Strength.

Benefits of Practicing Self-control:

Benefits of Understanding Self-control

What we can control:

There are so many things and emotions which we all can control, yet we all think and discuss rather get upset about what we cannot control. So here is the list detailing what we can control.

This list is just an example of things that we can control, in addition,  you can create your own list of things and emotions which you can control on the basis of this list.

  • Your Thoughts
  • Your Attitude
  • Best utilization of your time
  • Your Mindset
  • Your Beliefs
  • What you put in and what you bring out of your mouth
  • Your Feelings
  • How many times you Smile in a day
  • Saying Thank You
  • Attentive Listening
  • Trying new things and learning new skills
  • Grateful for things and people you have
  • How much information you share with people
  • Stop Judging
  • Your Reaction to everything

What about the things which we cannot control and what to do for those things:

Lest us first see the example of things in this category:

  • Other People’s Thoughts
  • If People Likes or dislikes you
  • The passing of time
  • How other people treats you
  • The outside situation, like the current Pandemic
  • Other People’s actions
  • Other People’s beliefs and thoughts
  • Whether people like, love, understand or accept you
  • The exact outcome of anything
  • When you will Die

Now if you carefully read this list, you will understand that these things are either universal truths or are in control of other people whom you interact with. So here you need to understand that you cannot control universal truths and you cannot control hundreds of people with whom you interact. In fact, you cannot control a single person. What is in your hand is your reaction, your attitude for those things, or people whom you cannot control.

Here I would advise you to read a post of mine which talks about Bad News and Good News in Life, here is the link:

Bad News and Good News in Life

Understanding Self-control, Conclusion and Way Forward:

By far we have understood what is Self-control, benefits of practicing Self-control. In addition to that we have also seen in life, there are many things which we can control and we need not have to worry about what we cannot control.

Now the next thing which comes in mind is that how to practice Self-control. For Self-control, the most important thing is Willpower, so along with other ways to improve and build Self-control, we will discuss in detail about Willpower in the next post.

Understand resilience, its attributes and your own score

In the current pandemic situation, it is important to build resiliency. So today let us understand resilience, its attributes and our resiliency score.

In this current pandemic situation, it is very important for all of us to improve our emotional resiliency. Emotional Resiliency will not only help in surviving this situation but also help us in thriving in this situation. So today let us understand what is resilience, its attributes and our own resiliency score.

Meaning of Resilience:

Dictionary meaning of resilience:

The capacity to recover quickly from difficulties; toughness. or
The ability of a substance or object to spring back into shape; elasticity.

Lets us understand meaning of resilience further:

Resilience is the process of adapting well,
in the face of adversity,
threats or
significant sources of stress such as family and
relationship problems,
serious health problems or 
workplace and
financial stress.
It means, “Bouncing back” from difficult experiences. Also
It means comeback from a Setback.

In other words, we are talking about our ability to handle life, in all its unpredictable difficult situation, without falling off, or hurting ourselves in the process.

Few Quotes to Understand Resilience in further detail:

Life doesn’t get easier or more forgiving; we get stronger and more resilient.

It’s your reaction to adversity, not adversity itself that determines how your life’s story will develop.

Resilience is very different than being numb. Resilience means you experience, you feel, you fail, you hurt, you fall. But, you keep going.
― Yasmin Mogahed

In conclusion, That which does not kill us makes us stronger.
― Friedrich Nietzsche

Let us Understand Resilience and attributes of Resilient people:

  • They not only maintain a positive outlook, but also envision brighter days ahead.
  • Resilient people have solid purpose or goals in life, and a desire to achieve the same.
  • Resilient people are empathetic and compassionate however,
  • They don’t waste time worrying what others think of them.
  • Above all, People with emotional awareness understand what they’re feeling and why. Moreover,
  • They also understand the feelings of others better because they are more in touch with their own inner life.
  • Resilient people also see the positives in most situations and believe in their strength.
  • Resilient people never think of themselves as victims. Above all they focus their time and energy on changing the things that they have control over.

Know your Resiliency Score:

Instructions for the test:

  1. Read the question carefully and,
  2. Answer the question with honesty.
  3. Answer according to your first choice as soon as you read the question.
  4. Rate yourself from 1 to 5 (1 = strongly disagree; 5 = strongly agree)
  5. Keep adding points for each question to know your resiliency score.

I often feel like I have control over what happens to me.

I do not worry about issues that I have no control over.

Feelings of anger and discouragement do not last long.

I can overcome painful childhood memories and lessen their impact on my behavior.

I am emotionally very strong.

When one attempt fails, I do not get discouraged and I learn from it and change my approach next time.

I am able to discuss my job and its challenges with people outside of work, such as family members and close friends.

Above all, I am normally optimistic and see difficulties as opportunities.

When going through a difficult period, I have a tendency to focus on the good things in my life that help me blossom.

I try to control events rather than being a victim of circumstances.

Interpretation of the score:

  • Less than 20: Low Resilience
  • 21 – 30: Some Resilience
  • 31 – 40: Adequate Resilience
  • 41 – 50: High Resilience  

Conclusion and Key Notes:

So far we have understood what Resilience means and what are the attributes of Resilience people. We also know where are we in terms of our resiliency score.

However, you need not have to worry if you have scored low in the test, because you can build and improve your resiliency score. You can learn this skill and how you can learn this, we will discuss that in my next post.

Till then thanks and you can read below post to know yourself better.

Know and understand yourself… Self-Awareness

Self-Discipline, How to bring discipline in Life

Understand Resilience
We as a human also need to do this. Resiliency will help us in thriving in the difficult time.

To know progress in your life, ask these questions

Do you want to know progress in your life. What you have achieved so far and what more is needed. I have a list of questions for you to know this.

Do you want to know progress in your life. What you have achieved so far and what more is needed. I have a list of questions for you so that you can understand this.

Check progress of your life by answering these questions to yourself.

Please follow below instructions so that this post will be effective for you to know progress in your life:

  • Read the question slowly and carefully and
  • Take a pause after each question and
  • Try to answer the same in your mind and
  • then analyze the answer in your mind and
  • then go to the next question.

Dreams of Life and Goal Setting:

  • If there is 100 % guarantee of success what you will try in life?
  • Is this only fear of failure who is stopping you?
  • What is my definition of success and what is my plan to achieve the same?
  • If I had a magic wand, what will be my top three wishes?
  • Now ask yourself why can’t you achieve these wishes without magic wand?

Maintaining Relationship:

  • Am I holding on to something, which I should let go?
  • How many people are happy just because of me?
  • What are you doing to invest in your relationship?
  • Am I a good listener? If not, how can I become good listener?
  • Do I appreciate people enough?

Take care of yourself:

  • Do I love and care of myself enough?
  • Do I celebrate my small success and achievements?
  • AM I having enough fun in my life?
  • Am I living my passion?

Knowing Growth meter of my Life:

  • Am I trying to come out of comfort zone?
  • Am I just going through life or growing through life?
  • Should I worry about the things, which are not in my control?
  • What steps I am taking to solve the problems, which are in my control?
  • Am I living because I have born, or I am born to live?

Social Responsibility:

  • What I am doing to make life better for next generation?
  • Am I utilizing natural resources optimally?
  • Can my next generation have a better life than mine?
  • Am I taking care of environment and my surroundings?

This exercise of asking questions need to be repeated at a regular interval to know progress in your life so that you can track the same.

If you want to read and understand more on how to come out of comfort zone then click here
Comfort Zone

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