In old time there was one village in which there were 100 houses. There were neither electricity nor any other source of light at night. People used to come home before sun sets. They all become habituated to this and were able to manage everything without light.
One day a villager went to nearby town and He bought a Candle and Matchbox. He came back to the village and lit that candle and there were light in his house. Among all the 100 houses now one house had light.
All the other 99 villagers saw that, that house is having light now. They were very anxious and feeling very uneasy. So to know what is happening, they all decided to meet that person and went to his house
They saw that it is candle that is giving light. Now in the village one person became superior to other as he is having light at his house.
So now all the 99 villagers have two options so that they all can come at par:
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In my last post Choose your words wisely… we observed that our word has enormous power which can make or break someone’s life.
In this post we will be discussing what words we say to ourselves, that is our own thoughts, which we knowingly or unknowingly feeds our mind.
Your worst enemy cannot harm you as much as your own unguarded thoughts.
We are product of our thoughts. What we thinks, we become.
Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we think about it. Don’t allow the 10% to control how we live our life.
How to control our thoughts:
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Do not get demotivated by failure. It is nothing but an outcome only just like success is an outcome. Learn from your failure and grow in life.
Some Mistakes That We Often Make In Life
1- Ignoring what you can control.
2- Worrying about what you can’t control.
3- Assuming you have to accept everything just the way it is.
4- Believing someone else’s definition of success.
5- Giving up as soon as the going gets tough.
6- Taking yourself, other people, and life too seriously every second.
7- Waiting for the perfect moment.
8- Assuming its too late to learn or take charge of your life.
9- Thinking yourself as good for nothing.
10- Believing that you don’t have any natural talent.
11- Taking your health for granted.
12- Stop dreaming,reading and learning gradually.
13- Ignoring your parents.
14- Being dependent on someone else for your emotional happiness.
15- Too much caring about what other will think.
EGO: I am, I am , I am , No one else is important
Ego is when people value themselves the most and at the same time don’t bother about other’s values and emotions.
Nowadays people have Ego of their Knowledge but no knowledge of their Ego.
Self confidence: I am and yes every one else is
Self confidence is a state of mind where you feel yourself valuable and important, and at the same time value other’s value’s and emotions.
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.
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