June 7

## Principles of Mathematics and Application in solving Life’s problems

In my previous post Mathematics of Life, Learn from Math symbols we have analyzed how mathematics Symbols teach us about life, In today’s post we will analyze the applicability of few Problem-Solving principles of mathematics in our life.

We are going to learn how we can apply principles of Mathematics in our life and how can we solve our life’s problems and challenges by applying these Mathematics principles.

## Whether it is Maths or Life you need to start to Solve a problem:

Principle 1: You need to start to solve a math problem; you cannot have all answers in mind and then start.

Application in Life: Most of the time, you cannot predict where you will end up. Just go for it—you will figure the rest out along the way.

Principle 2: One-step at a time and you will solve it.

Application in Life: If the problem is too challenging, start smaller. Break the problem into small parts and try solving small parts. It applies for achieving Goals also, to achieve a long term Goal we need to break it into smaller short term Goal. The little things make all the difference.

Principle 3: There is more than one way to solve a math problem.

Application in Life: Life rarely gives you black and white choices, and that is fine. Often, you will find yourself having to choose between multiple good options. Once you start solving it everything will fall in place.

## Importance of Equation in Maths and Life:

Principle 4: LHS = RHS Keep your equations balanced.

Application in Life: You need to keep balance between Personal and Professional life. Make time for the things you love and keep adjusting. This equation of life should always be balanced.

Principle 5: Do not be afraid to ask questions.

Application in Life: You will not always get to the answer on your own. Ask for help! Faced with a challenge or problem in life? Lean on your near and dear ones for help. The ability to admit what you do not know is a crucial life skill.

## Importance of Logic and thought process in solving Problems:

Principle 6: A forgotten negative sign or a small miscalculation can lead to a completely wrong answer.

Application in Life: In life also, pay attention to the details. In any situation or any relations or even when you are at work, you know how important it is to pay attention to small things.

Principle 7: Logic and thought process behind the answer.

Application in Life: In life also we need to analyze the situation, we need to understand the logic and thought process behind every situation in life, before taking any action on the same.

## Learn from Mistakes and Improve whether it is Math or Life:

Principal 8: You will make mistakes. Even the greatest mathematicians need to rework problems repeatedly.

Application in Life: Failure is not the end. If you get the wrong answer, keep trying. You will make mistakes in life, but you will learn from them! Learning from mistakes and bad experience is an important part of our life.

## Journey to reach the solution or destination is very important:

Principle 9: The answer might be simple, but the steps to get there may be very difficult and lengthy.

Application in Life: Even if you have an end goal in mind, the journey there will not always be easy and like Math, we will be very happy once we reach the destination and we will appreciate our journey.

Principle 10: Sometimes math can be challenging and occasionally be frustrating, even to the best and brightest.

Application in Life: Likewise, life will get tough but stay patient, be resilient, meet the challenges, and it will certainly pay off!

## Conclusion:

So we have seen that there are so much similarity in Mathematics and Life, when it is about problem solving. Hope you have enjoyed the post and you will apply the principles of Mathematics in solving your problems in life.

August 24

## What is Love, forms of Love and which is Best

In Life we get love from different people and relationships. So today let us analyses what is Love, what are the different forms of Love and which is Best.

## What is Love:

I think love cannot be defined in a single paragraph without any context to the person whose love we are trying to define. So let us understand What is Love in the context of the related person.

### What is love of Mother:

Do you know why Love is Blind? Because our Mother started loving us before seeing our face.

5 missed calls from Mom

Son: I have told you not to disturb me when I am at work.

### Let us understand Father’s Love:

A Good Father is one of the most unsung, upraised, unnoticed and yet one of the most valuable assets in our society.

They say men don’t love dolls, but when they’re blessed with one, they can’t stop fiddling with her.

The reason why daughter love their dad most is that there is at least one man in the world who will never hurt her.

### What is Love of Brother:

A brother is a friend given by nature.

There’s no other love like the love for a brother. There’s no other love like the love from a brother.

### Sister’s Love:

There can be no situation in life in which the conversation of my dear sister will not administer some comfort to me.” – Mary Montagu

There’s nobody in the world that knows me better than my sister.” – Tia Mowry

### Friends Love:

A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you.

A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words

### Understanding Partner and Partner’s Love:

Love is not about finding a good partner. It is also about being a good one.

A great relationship is about two things, first find out the similarities, second respect the differences.

## Which Love is Best:

When I came home in the rain,
My Brother Asked: Why you Didn’t take an Umbrella.
Sister:(Advised) why didn’t you wait till rain stopped.
Father(Angrily): Warned! only after getting cold, you will realize.

Mother: while drying my Hair, said,
“STUPID RAIN! couldn’t it wait, till my child came home.”
Thats MAA (Mother)

You may also like to read Understanding Life by Quotes

July 11

## Knowing what is Fear is important than how to overcome

As the heading itself suggest that Knowing what is fear is important than how to overcome fear. We will focus today on understanding what is fear.

## Meaning of Fear:

Dictionary meaning of Fear:
“An unpleasant emotion caused by the threat of danger, pain, or harm”

Here two important word that you need to note is “Emotion” and “threat”. Therefore, fear is an emotion and it is caused by a threat, which means that the event has not happened and even the actual happening or not happening of the event is not even certain.

Fear is nothing but a story, which we tell ourselves over and over again.

## Knowing what is Fear and Understanding it in detail:

Consider a Situation; if someone sticks a gun in your face, you will most likely have a lot of fear because you are imagining what he or she will do and what the effect will be for you.

Now consider the second situation; if you are feared in general that just walking down the street that someone will pull a gun on you?

Let us evaluate both the situation and understand the fear,

In the first situation, Danger is in front of you and you are imagining the outcome of this, which may happen at any time.

Whereas in the second situation nothing has happened, you are not only imagining the outcome, moreover, you are imagining the Cause itself i.e. Danger.

In our life most of the time our fear is of the second category.

## One more perspective which will help you in knowing what is fear:

We do not touch fire, why, are we afraid of fire or we know that we will burn our hand if we touch fire. Try to understand the difference in both the scenario; I am trying to simplify the thing, which we often confuse. So not touching the fire is not due to fear, here the danger is real and we know that we will burn our hand if we touch fire.

## Reason of Fear:

You need to understand we are not afraid of the situation, we are afraid of the outcome of the situation.
Let us understand this, Say for example someone says He/ she is afraid of heights, this means that they are not afraid of heights, they are afraid of the outcome, what if they will fall down. Again, the outcome is not universal truth like in the example of fire; it is just imaginary, which only born in our mind.

### Let us further evaluate this understanding; here is the list of Top Ten Fears in the Life:

Change
Loneliness
Failure
Rejection
Uncertainty
Getting Hurt
Being Judged
Death

Read more about these fears in this link. Moreover, once you read about these fears in details, you will understand that these are just created in our own mind in some imaginary situations while we think of some future outcome.

What I am trying to demonstrate here is that all these fears are “Fears” because we are afraid of the outcome. The outcome is a future thing, so understand that Fear is born due to our thinking of Future outcomes.

## Let us go back to our example and understand Fear in some more details:

Now let us go back to our example, where someone put a Gun on your face. Here we are facing our Fear, which fears, which we were imagining that what if someone pulls a gun on my face. If we are facing our fear then why we are afraid of.

Here you need to understand that, we do not fear as a result of someone has put a gun on our face, we cannot be afraid of that because that is happening in the present. Then why and what are we fearing for. Here we are afraid of another imaginary outcome, which is Death. What if he will shoot me dead?

## Overcoming Fear:

As at the start I have told you that Knowing what is Fear is important than how to overcome it. So I am not giving you any tips to overcome a particular fear as your fear is different from my fear, I will give you a general principle to overcome fear.

When we will detach ourselves from the Outcome / Results (which is future) and focus on the Task (which is the present) we will not be afraid of anything.

Bhagavad Gita also say Karm Karo fal ki chinta mat karo.

Bhagavad Gita 2.47 translation: “You have control over performing your act, but you are not entitled to the fruits of action. Never be a slave to the outcome of an act but still, you should not be demotivated to perform your action.

If we follow this principle, we will not be afraid of the outcome and once our focus will shift from Outcome to Action or performing duties, fear will automatically disappear.

## Conclusion: Knowing what is Fear is important than how to overcome

Let us conclude the topic with few wonderful quotes:

“Too many people are thinking of security instead of opportunity. They seem to be more afraid of life than death.”
— James F. Byrnes

“Do the thing you fear and the death of fear is certain.”
— Ralph Waldo Emerson

“Everything you’ve ever wanted is on the other side of fear.”

July 6

## Mathematics of Life, Learn from Math symbols

Let us today understand the mathematics of Life or learning about life from Mathematics. Will talk on few most used symbols in Mathematics and try to apply the same in life.

Let us understand what we should add in our life:

1. Value: Add richness and value to your own life by adding value to the lives around you.
2. Laughter: Even while you are, working hard to simplify your life and dealing with serious things look for opportunities to laugh with your whole heart.
3. Meaning: Spend some time trying to sort out what is important in your life and why it is important.
4. Gratitude: Express your gratitude aloud. Be grateful for everything you have.
5. Kindness: Be kind to yourself and to others. Kindness does not cost anything.
6. Patience: As you simplify your life, be patient with the people in your life who aren’t there yet
8. Joy: Find little things that bring you great joy.
9. Challenge: Add challenges in your life; Keep doing new challenging things, which will make your life interesting.
10. Meditation: Do meditation and exercise to keep yourself mentally and physically fit.

### 2. Subtractions (-):

We should remove
Fear | Regret | Comparison | Negativity | Past | Complaining |Overspending |Sorrow
From our life.

### 3. Division (÷):

We should share
Happiness | Time | Problems | Stress | Worries
With our loved one, so that we should not feel alone and should not feel depressed.

### 4. Multiplication (X):

We should try to multiply
Relationships | Experience | Knowledge | Positivity | Fitness | Self-Worth
In our life.

### 5. Greater Than (>):

This is very important symbol in Maths and in our life also, let us evaluate this:

1. What we have is > what we are lacking
2. What we can control is > what we cannot control
4. What is within yourself is > what is outside
5. Your positivity is > other people’s negativity

### Conclusion:

If we will apply these learning from Mathematics in our life , then Equation of our Life will be balanced and perfect.

In my next post we will learn about life from mathematics problem solving principles.

Meaning of Gratitude and things we take for granted

Gratitude in our Life Analysis with few Questions

April 20

## The Philosophy About Too Much

1. If you speak too much, you will lie
2. If you think too much, you will be depressed
3. If you cry too much, you will lose your sight
4. If you love too much, you will be lost
5. If you care too much, you will be taken for granted
6. If you play too much, you will not be taken serious often
7. If you trust too much, you will be betrayed
8. If you work too much, you will die of stress
9. If you eat too much, you will be obsessed
10.If you sleep too much, you will be idle
11. If you spend too much, you will have no future
12. If you wear make up too much, you will lose your beauty
13. If you look too much, you will lose your focus
14. If you pursue life too much, you will lose everything.

BUT……….

* When you pray too much, you will have everything
* When you are patient too much, you will have the whole world
* When you invest too much, you will have your future guaranteed
* When you let go too much, you will have peace of mind
*When you are careful too much, you will be saved of many evils.

Thanks

Manish Malu