May 6

Take care of yourself first…

You can’t pour from empty cup, Take care of yourself first.

Be yourself no matter what. Some will adore you and some will hate everything about you. But who cares.

If it doesn’t involve you, it should not concern you.

You are Not required to set yourself on fire to keep other people warm.

Steps to self care:

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May 2

Do not complain in Life… No one likes it…

We all have a habit of complaining either to self or to people around us. Have you ever thought about what people will be thinking about you when you have a complaining nature? No one likes it so Do not complain.

People won’t have time for you if you are always angry and complaining.

Complaining not only ruins everybody else’s  day, it ruins the complainer’s day too. The more we complain, the more unhappy we get.

On average a person complains about 15-20 times in a day… Why people Complain:

  • To start a conversation, strange but it’s true.
  • Complaining is also used as a way to provoke others to switch loyalties. e.g. “Don’t listen to him, He is good for nothing.
  • To pre-excuse poor performance, behaviour or inaction.
  • People complain about difficulties of a situation or task to remove themselves from taking responsibility.

Think before complaining… below statement will help you in thinking that…

  • We are born crying that is natural, but don’t live complaining and die disappointed.
  • If you have time to complain about something then you have the time to do something about it.
  • Try to go 24 hours without complaining. (Not even once). Then watch how your life starts changing.

You complain that you don’t have good branded shoes, there are people who don’t have feet.

  • Spending today complaining about yesterday won’t make tomorrow any better.

What if you woke up today with only the things you thanked God for yesterday. So stop complaining and start appreciating what you have.

Complain

Read my post on The Art of questioning, why we should ask question

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May 25

Some Mistakes of Life – Ignoring what you can control…

Everyone wants their life to be simple, happy and peaceful, for this you need to take control of your own Life. For this you need to control the things which control your life.

Focus on what you can control and leave what you can’t.

So what you are suppose to control is this, Here is the list of things which you can control:

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April 8

10 things you will regret…

10 Things You Will Surely Regret When You Grow Older, Unless You Change Now
Time is ticking, life is passing. Friends leave, people die, promises break. What is left of you is your own heart, and nothing can feel worse than having an unhappy one. An old body and a disappointed soul – is that the kind of regret you can afford?

1. Not travelling when you had the time, age and resources. Saving up for later, delaying, waiting for the right time – it isn’t coming.

2. Staying in a bad relationship. One thing about those, no matter how long you stretch them, at one point they snap. Who will make up for the lost time?

3. Not doing things you love, because you care too much about what other people think. People pass. Time passes. Your unhappy heart will stay.

4. Not telling people you love them. Your big crush, your parents, that mentor. Let them know, they’re not going to be around forever, and neither will you.

5. Working too hard and too much for something that doesn’t matter enough. Just imagine how your old body will mourn the lost youth and energy. Times you could have been happy.

6. Not spending enough time with your parents. I don’t want to explain this one, but realize what’s happening.

7. Not quitting that terrible, no-growth job. Just …WHY? If you KNOW you have the skills & the potential, why not just GO out and give it a shot?

8. Not taking that one big risk that could have changed your life. Was the possible loss greater than the disappointment of not knowing “What If?”

9. Not saying that one sorry. Not letting go of your ego knowing you’ve been wrong. The regret is yuuuuuuge.

10. Lastly, not realizing how beautiful you are. You don’t deserve to take sh!t from ANYONE. You have ONE life, spend it being a damned fairy.

Good Night.. Take care…

March 31

Quotes for thought

  • When life is sweet, say thank you and celebrate. When life is bitter, say thank you and grow.

 

  • Not all storms come to disrupt your life, some come to clear your path.

 

  • If you don’t sacrifice for what you want, what you want becomes the sacrifice.

 

  • Success doesn’t just come and find you, you have to go out and get it.

 

  • Don’t stop when you are tired. Stop when you are done.

 

Disclaimer: -Quotes won’t work unless you do.