The result of average efforts will be average only. If you want to be best in life, your efforts should also be the best. Stop being average in life.
The result of average efforts will be average only. So if you want to be the best in life your efforts should also be the best. so stop being average in life. Start the journey of becoming Average to Great from today itself. Let me show you some ways and tips to become great in Life.
If you’re not doing things that scare you, then you’re going to be average for the rest of your life.
If people are not laughing at your Goals, you certainly needs to revise them.
We have two lives, and the second begins when we realize we only have one – Confucius
How to Stop being average in Life:
Now let’s discuss how to become great from Average in Life, what we need to stop and what we need to start doing to become great and successful in Life:
Most of the people don’t take action and they wonder every day that their life is not in their control. To take control of your life, first take control on your action.
What you do today will decide, the difference between who you are and who you want to become.
In life, you will get what you work for; not what you wish for.
Instead of blaming the situation take some action to come out.
Drop the excusesand stop being average in life
Don’t say what if or I can’t, you should be honest with yourself and always try to address the areas you need to improve on. Stop taking excuses in Life.
For things to change you must change your belief and mindset.
You can achieve a lot in 1 year with Discipline and Focus.
Either you can have excuses or results not both, choice is yours.
Reading Book every day
If you are not getting much time read at least half an hour. Books should be your best friend with whom you have to talk for at-least half an hour daily.
Leave your comfort Zone
You can only grow when you keep yourself challenging. I have already written three detailed posts on the topic of the comfort zone. Title and link of the post are given below, Go and read them.
You are a limited edition unless you are limiting yourself by self created limitations.
Learn something new
learn something new at regular interval. This could be related to your vocation or profession or it could be anything small or big, but try and learn something new.
Admission of ignorance is first step towards learning. Don’t ignore your ignorance.
Upgrade yourself regularly, else you will get uninstalled.
Set Goals in Life and stop being average
One needs to have Goals in Life, else you will be wondering every day where life is going. I will try and create a couple of post on Goal setting very soon.
If your vision is clear, you will see the problem as well as the solution.
“You are born to live not living because you are born”. So Set your Goals of Life.
Unlock your full potentials
Everybody has some unique talent and potential to become great, however, we need to identify and unlock our potential. Wanna know how to unleash your hidden potential read this post explaining in detail each and every aspect of how you can unleash your hidden potential.
Only you can change your life, no one can do it for you.
Let other people doubt you, but you don’t doubt yourself.
6 ways to step out of the comfort zone, these are:
Become more curious
Change your daily routine
Start a challenge
Learn something new
Take a different route
The Author has beautifully explained each of the above steps and you can access and read the original post here,
Stepping out of your comfort zone is very important to me. Over the last few years I’ve noticed the importance of pushing myself. Just to get outside my comfort zone, learn something new and challenge myself. What are 5 easy ways to step out of your comfort zone? How can you get out of your […]
If you feel you are the awkward person at social events or you struggle to start a conversation, you need to develop social skills and this post is for you.
If you feel like you’re the awkward person at social events and functions or you struggle to start a conversation because you’re shy, it can impact your social life and your career. Social skills, such as communication, empathy, interpersonal and listening skills, are beneficial not just to your personal life but also to your professional life. So let us discuss more about social skills in today’s post.
What are the social skills?
Social skills are the skills we use to communicate and interact with each other. Social skills include written, verbal, nonverbal and visual communication used to relay a message to others. Common ways in which you exercise your social skills are:
The language you use
The tone, pitch and volume of your voice
Gestures you make
Your body language
Eye contact with others when communicating
How to develop social skills:
Learn people’s name :- We feel really good if in the second meeting people remember our name and address us with our name. Remembering the name of the person is very important thing.
Encourage others to talk about themselves:- When you speak, you say what you know, but when you listen you will definitely learn something new.
Interrupt less:- The best appreciation we can give a person is ‘attentive and interesting listening’. So be a Good Listener.
Ask questions where people can answer much more than simple “Yes” or “No”
listen with intent to learn and understand:- we often listen to reply not to understand, but if we listen to understand we can develop good relationship.
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Few more simple and effective tips
Offer genuine compliments and appreciation
Read Books about social skills
Say please and thank you, these two words cost nothing but can create huge value for the other person.
Give without expecting a get, but I bet you will definitely get if not from the same person then from others.
Pay attention to your body language, when you speak as well as when you listen.
Stay up to date on current news and stories so that you have something to talk about
Don’t respond to negativity
Don’t nitpick, no one is perfect try to understand people.