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Life changing advice by Quotes – Series… 12

In this era of mobile and social media, Setting up an “alarm for sleeping” is important than for waking up. ©

A Goal without deadline is just a wish.

Nothing changes if Nothing changes.

Courage is not the absence of fear, it is the willingness to act in spite of fear.

Do not give up. If you don’t finish, someone else will.

Be part of the solution, Not part of the problem.

Life is about making some things to happen, Not waiting for something to happen.

Someday, somehow, everything will make sense, till then keep going. ©

If you are always trying to be normal, You will never know how amazing you can be.

Our behavior is a function of our decisions, not our conditions.

Appreciate the beauty of imperfection as an opportunity for growth.

Few other part of the series

Life changing advice by Quotes – Series… 3

Life changing advice by Quotes – Series… 4

Life changing advice by Quotes – Series… 5

Stop being Average in Life, How to become great in life

The result of average efforts will be average only. If you want to be best in life, your efforts should also be the best. Stop being average in life.

The result of average efforts will be average only. So if you want to be the best in life your efforts should also be the best. so stop being average in life. Start the journey of becoming Average to Great from today itself. Let me show you some ways and tips to become great in Life.

If you’re not doing things that scare you, then you’re going to be average for the rest of your life.

If people are not laughing at your Goals, you certainly needs to revise them.

We have two lives, and the second begins when we realize we only have one – Confucius

How to Stop being average in Life:

Now let’s discuss how to become great from Average in Life, what we need to stop and what we need to start doing to become great and successful in Life:

Take Action

Most of the people don’t take action and they wonder every day that their life is not in their control. To take control of your life, first take control on your action.

What you do today will decide, the difference between who you are and who you want to become.

In life, you will get what you work for; not what you wish for.

Instead of blaming the situation take some action to come out.

Drop the excuses and stop being average in life

Don’t say what if or I can’t, you should be honest with yourself and always try to address the areas you need to improve on. Stop taking excuses in Life.

For things to change you must change your belief and mindset.

You can achieve a lot in 1 year with Discipline and Focus.

Either you can have excuses or results not both, choice is yours.

Reading Book every day

If you are not getting much time read at least half an hour. Books should be your best friend with whom you have to talk for at-least half an hour daily.

Leave your comfort Zone

You can only grow when you keep yourself challenging. I have already written three detailed posts on the topic of the comfort zone. Title and link of the post are given below, Go and read them.

Comfort Zone is Danger Zone

How to come out of comfort Zone

Life outside your comfort Zone

You are a limited edition unless you are limiting yourself by self created limitations.

Learn something new

learn something new at regular interval. This could be related to your vocation or profession or it could be anything small or big, but try and learn something new.

Admission of ignorance is first step towards learning. Don’t ignore your ignorance.

Upgrade yourself regularly, else you will get uninstalled.

Set Goals in Life and stop being average

One needs to have Goals in Life, else you will be wondering every day where life is going. I will try and create a couple of post on Goal setting very soon.

If your vision is clear, you will see the problem as well as the solution.

“You are born to live not living because you are born”. So Set your Goals of Life.

Unlock your full potentials

Everybody has some unique talent and potential to become great, however, we need to identify and unlock our potential. Wanna know how to unleash your hidden potential read this post explaining in detail each and every aspect of how you can unleash your hidden potential.

Only you can change your life, no one can do it for you.

Let other people doubt you, but you don’t doubt yourself.

How to unleash your hidden potentials

Celebrate Small Success

This is a very common thing which people often forgets. We should celebrate our each and every success be it very small or big. Celebration will give you enough boost to achieve more in life.

One day your life will flash like a movie before your eyes, make sure it is worth watching.

Few quick one-liners to give you a perspective and food for thoughts:

  • Don’t watch TV. TV controls us although Remote is in our hand.
  • Welcome the criticism and moreover work on improving yourself.
  • Surround yourself with great people, so that you can learn new things from them.
  • Do regular exercise and eat healthily, keep yourself fit and active.
  • Don’t complain no one likes it. Read more at Click here
  • Trying to make everyone happy, trust me you can’t. Try and make yourself happy, trust me you can.
  • One who blames others in Life had given Remote Control of his / her life to someone else.
  • Don’t accept other people’s definition of life. It’s your life you have to define it.
  • You are born to Live not living because you are born.
  • In life, you should have endless hope and not a hopeless end. So Set Goals and define your life.
  • Don’t snooze your alarm, this is the very first thing which we only decided and not doing it. Think again. Fulfill your own commitment to yourself.
  • Improve yourself instead of proving yourself.

Thanks for reading, now it is time to take action. So Best of Luck. “Don’t be a minimum guy”.

Stop being average in Life
Stop being average in Life

Life changing advice by Quotes – Series… 11

Know your limits and capabilities, so that you can go beyond them.

What you do today will decide, The difference between who you are and who you want to become.

It’s nice to be important. But it’s more important to be nice!

Change the outlook, change your world.

For things to change, you must change your beliefs and mindset.

For things to get better, you need to get better.

Believe in luck, but do not rely solely on it.

If it is to be, it is up to me. “Attitude for success” ©

Admission of ignorance is first step towards learning. Don’t ignore your ignorance.

“We have two lives, and the second begins when we realize we only have one” – Confucius

Recognize your self-worth and stop giving discounts to peoples. ©

If you have the courage to start you can succeed. ©

Few other part of the series

Life changing advice by Quotes – Series… 3

Life changing advice by Quotes – Series… 4

Life changing advice by Quotes – Series… 5

Step Out Of Your Comfort Zone – 6 ways [Re-blog]

Comfort zone is a danger zone, and you need to understand this and try to step out your comfort zone. Lets discuss how to come out of the comfort zone.

Yet another re-blog, Today I have read this beautiful post which talks about, how can we come out of comfort zone. The Author talk about 6 ways to step out of the comfort zone.

So before we talk about the ways how to come out of comfort zone, lets talk about the disadvantage of the comfort zone:

10 disadvantages of comfort zone, you:

  1. will lose your uniqueness and become like any other.
  2. are simply surviving.
  3. You become fearful of taking new things and challenges.
  4. You start living in a very dull life.
  5. are just going through life, not growing through life.
  6. You normally start procrastinating things.
  7. You are settling for less, whereas you deserve more.
  8. are playing very safe, not taking any risks.
  9. You are just getting by.
  10. will regret being in the comfort zone.

You can read this post in full details here,

Comfort Zone is a danger zone, nothing grows there

6 ways to step out of the comfort zone, these are:

  1. Become more curious
  2. Change your daily routine
  3. Start a challenge
  4. Go Out
  5. Learn something new
  6. Take a different route

The Author has beautifully explained each of the above steps and you can access and read the original post here,

Stepping out of your comfort zone is very important to me. Over the last few years I’ve noticed the importance of pushing myself. Just to get outside my comfort zone, learn something new and challenge myself. What are 5 easy ways to step out of your comfort zone? How can you get out of your […]

6 Ways To Step Out Of Your Comfort Zone — The Curvaceous Vegan

So, by now we have discussed the disadvantages or being in comfort zone and how we can come out of comfort zone, let us now discuss, how our life will be once we come out of the comfort zone.

Advantages of coming out of the comfort zone:

  1. More adaptive to change
  2. More Creative
  3. Your life become exciting
  4. More Productive
  5. Increase in Self – confidence
  6. More control over life

Read more about these advantages at

Life outside your comfort zone…

Step out of your comfort zone

Social skills – simple guidance on how to develop it

If you feel you are the awkward person at social events or you struggle to start a conversation, you need to develop social skills and this post is for you.

If you feel like you’re the awkward person at social events and functions or you struggle to start a conversation because you’re shy, it can impact your social life and your career. Social skills, such as communication, empathy, interpersonal and listening skills, are beneficial not just to your personal life but also to your professional life. So let us discuss more about social skills in today’s post.

What are the social skills?

Social skills are the skills we use to communicate and interact with each other. Social skills include written, verbal, nonverbal and visual communication used to relay a message to others. Common ways in which you exercise your social skills are:

  • The language you use
  • The tone, pitch and volume of your voice
  • Gestures you make
  • Facial expressions
  • Your body language
  • Eye contact with others when communicating

How to develop social skills:

  • Learn people’s name :- We feel really good if in the second meeting people remember our name and address us with our name. Remembering the name of the person is very important thing.
  • Encourage others to talk about themselves:- When you speak, you say what you know, but when you listen you will definitely learn something new.
  • Interrupt less:- The best appreciation we can give a person is ‘attentive and interesting listening’. So be a Good Listener.
  • Ask questions where people can answer much more than simple “Yes” or “No”
  • listen with intent to learn and understand:- we often listen to reply not to understand, but if we listen to understand we can develop good relationship.
  • Promote others good work :So if you like this post you can share this and drop your favorite post in comment section so that I can read your post.

Few more simple and effective tips

  • Offer genuine compliments and appreciation
  • Read Books about social skills
  • Say please and thank you, these two words cost nothing but can create huge value for the other person.
  • Give without expecting a get, but I bet you will definitely get if not from the same person then from others.
  • Pay attention to your body language, when you speak as well as when you listen.
  • Stay up to date on current news and stories so that you have something to talk about
  • Don’t respond to negativity
  • Don’t nitpick, no one is perfect try to understand people.
  • Be positive, be happy

First learn to listen and then you will learn by listening. ©

How to measure your progress on social skills:

Give yourself a rating from 1 to 5 (where 1 is ‘Never’ and 5 is ‘Always’) for below questions:

  • Are you aware of what types of emotions you are feeling
  • Can you easily ask for help
  • How easily and how frequently you say ‘Thank you’
  • How much comfortable you are in receiving negative feedback
  • Rate yourself as a Good Listener
  • How easily you can give compliment to other person.
  • How comfortable you are in introducing two people
  • Can you say sorry when you have done something wrong
  • How much you are comfortable in starting a conversation
  • Rate yourself in understanding other people’s feeling.

More on understanding yourself

Know and understand yourself… Self-Awareness

How to develop social skills
Ways to improve your social skills score