Some Mistakes of Life – Ignoring what you can control…

Everyone wants their life to be simple, happy and peaceful, for this you need to take control of your own Life. For this you need to control the things which control your life.

Focus on what you can control and leave what you can’t.

So what you are suppose to control is this, Here is the list of things which you can control:

  1. Your own thoughts.
  2. Your mental and physical health.
  3. Your sleep.
  4. Being honest.
  5. Being Loyal.
  6. Saying Thank you.
  7. Your positive attitude.
  8. Your anger (Yes you can control your anger)
  9. Not Judging people.
  10. How much time you spend with your family.
  11. Money you spend.
  12. Leaving Bad habits.
  13. Smile on your face.
  14. Appreciating and being happy about what you have.
  15. Responding rather than reacting.
  16. How well you listen.
  17. Your Attitude.
  18. Our commitment.
  19. Learning new things.
  20. Your perspective / Your view point.
  21. Expressing your feeling.
  22. …. This list goes on and on you can add and make your list.

My point here is why we should worry about the things which we can’t control, when we have so much of things, which we can control.

So next time when you have any problem put it in to one of the two bucket i.e. Controllable or Uncontrollable.

  • If your problem is in the bucket of controllable, it should not spend much time there, you should do something about it and solve it because it is controllable.
  • If your problem is in the bucket of uncontrollable, means you cannot do anything about it, so you need not worry about it, because your worry will not make it controllable.

Thanks for reading…

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  1. Very well written!!

    1. Manish Malu says:

      Thank you so much for your appreciation..😊😊

  2. Finding Me says:

    Love this. It’s my main ( maybe) problem. What I can control in this life of chaos.

    1. Manish Malu says:

      Thanks for your appreciation..😊😊

  3. Very well said

    1. Manish Malu says:

      Thank you so much…😊😊

  4. So very right on, great writing!

    1. Manish Malu says:

      Thank you so much for your appreciation…😊😊

  5. Ria says:


    1. Manish Malu says:

      Thank you so much Ria…😊😊

      1. Ria says:

        Sorry didn’t have any words for the post..

      2. Manish Malu says:

        Your πŸ‘ had given me so much words of appreciation in itself… 😊😊

      3. Ria says:

        You’re a very good person that’s why your saying so..

      4. Manish Malu says:

        Thank you so much dear…😊😊 But believe me when I saw πŸ‘ My mind was reading it as comment automatically..😊😊

      5. Ria says:

        That’s why I call you Mr. Positive

      6. Manish Malu says:

        So sweet of you…😊😊

      7. Manish Malu says:

        And you forgot the rule of commenting….😒😒

      8. Ria says:

        Oh godπŸ™ˆ!! Yup.. no sorry no sir..

      9. Manish Malu says:

        Hehehe… Right… This time it’s okay… Next time u will get punishment…😊😊

      10. Ria says:

        Oh my god!!😨.. no!!! I won’t

      11. Manish Malu says:

        Why you are afraid of punishment, when you know that you are not gonna do mistake…😊😊

      12. Ria says:

        It can be that I do forget by mistake!! I’m a human tooπŸ™ˆ

      13. Manish Malu says:

        Hmm true… My point was on thinking positively…😊😊

      14. Ria says:

        Hmm I got thatπŸ˜„..

      15. Manish Malu says:

        Thanks dear…😊😊

      16. Ria says:

        For what? I haven’t done anything. I should be saying thanks to you for being so kind and big hearted not you..

      17. Manish Malu says:

        Kind and big hearted… 😱😱 … What r you saying dear…

      18. Ria says:

        Did I just said something opposite?πŸ˜πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

      19. Manish Malu says:

        Now you have check mate me…😊😊

      20. Ria says:

        πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚I’m proud of myself πŸ˜œπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

      21. Manish Malu says:


      22. Ria says:

        Your post is flooding with my comment.. I guess I should stop now

      23. Manish Malu says:

        Why you should stop…😒😒

      24. Ria says:

        Cause I must leave some space for other bloggers to comment as well 😁

      25. Manish Malu says:

        People will make their own space… you can continue…😊😊

      26. Ria says:

        πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ right but it’s not something which can go on forever..

      27. Manish Malu says:

        Didn’t get you…

      28. Ria says:

        I mean I should stop somewhere right?!!

      29. Manish Malu says:

        No issue dear.. As you wish… 😊😊

      30. Ria says:

        By the way it’s your comment section to get feedback not a place to talk.. don’t forget that 😝

      31. Manish Malu says:

        Ya true… But this is the only place where we can talk right… 😊😊

      32. Ria says:


      33. Manish Malu says:

        BTW.. you had made 100 + comments .. this was 101… 😊😊

        Thank you so much for being so interactive with me and my posts… 😊😊

      34. Ria says:


      35. Ria says:

        Keep achieving πŸ‘ happy blogging

      36. Manish Malu says:

        Thanks dear…😊😊

      37. Ria says:


      38. Manish Malu says:

        hmm… Is this a new trend… hahahhh

      39. Ria says:


      40. Manish Malu says:

        you haven’t posted anything new today…

      41. Ria says:

        Yup! Cause I’m not well.. maybe will do next week or so

      42. Manish Malu says:

        Not Well !!!… what happened dear…

      43. Ria says:

        Nothing much. Just having fever

      44. Manish Malu says:

        Take Care Dear…. you didn’t told me…

        Please take rest now… Good Night.. Take Care.. Have a nice sleep…

      45. Ria says:

        Sm to you.

      46. Manish Malu says:

        😊😊 Bye… Will talk tomorrow..😊😊

      47. Manish Malu says:

        Hi Ria… Good morning 😊😊. How r u feeling now…

      48. Ria says:

        Gd morning. I’m quite better now. Thanks for asking..

      49. Manish Malu says:

        That’s Great..😊😊

  6. Yes Very well said.
    Do your best and then don’t worry and waste your energy on things you can’t control. Have the courage to accept inevitable too.

    1. Manish Malu says:

      Yes… True…Thanks for your appreciation..😊😊

  7. RΓͺveuse says:

    Very well said.

    1. Manish Malu says:

      Thank you so much for your appreciation..😊😊

      1. RΓͺveuse says:

        Welcome 😊

  8. rita says:

    Excellent post !

    1. Manish Malu says:

      Thanks for appreciation..😊😊

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