Some mistakes that we often make in Life… Too much caring about what other will think…

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Too much caring about what other will think.

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Caring about what people think about you is useless. Most people don’t even know what They think of themselves.

What other people think of you is none of your business, perhaps they have extra time , but you don’t.

Life is a game of 3 parts.
In the first part, you wonder what people think about you..
In the second part, you don’t care what people think about you..
It is in the third and final part, you realize that, people were never thinking about you anyway...”

How to stop worrying about what people will think.

— Concentrate on what’s important.

— Remember, most people aren’t paying much attention on you, which you think they are.

— They might have opinions or ideas, but the only person who knows what is best for you is you.

— If you think too much on what other will think, you will not get time for yourself and on the contrary, if You start spending time on yourself , you won’t get time to think what other people will think.

— Most of the time, the negative feedback is coming from negative people, avoid them

— Seek constructive feedback, so that you can improve yourself.

— Opinions are not fact, they keep on changing, so let them go.

— If someone is making negative comments or opinion, then they are defining themselves not you.

You can be the ripest, juiciest peach in the world, but there will always be someone who hates peaches.

So in life there will be some people who will always dislike you, no matter what you do for them, so stop wasting your energy on them.

 

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Manish Malu 2018

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31 comments

  1. Manessah B. says:

    Very wise and motivating advice!

    1. Manish Malu says:

      Thank you so Much friend…Happy you liked it… Thanks…😊😊

      1. Manessah B. says:

        You’re very welcome, Manish! ☺️

      2. Manish Malu says:

        πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ’•πŸ’•

  2. Great thoughts! My writing takes me to a place away from everyone else. I don’t have to impress anyone with my poetry or other writing. I am a humble writer on an exciting journey.

    1. Manish Malu says:

      Thanks for appreciation…😊😊

  3. C.C. Bloom says:

    Couldn’t agree more! πŸ˜‰

    1. Manish Malu says:

      Thank you so much dear for your appreciation😊😊

      1. C.C. Bloom says:

        You’re most welcome, Manish! πŸ˜‰

      2. Manish Malu says:

        😊😊

  4. Angela says:

    So true!! I try to be myself regardless of other people’s opinion. Excellent post😊

    1. Manish Malu says:

      Thank you so much for your appreciation 😊😊

  5. amandapoet says:

    I was just having this discussion with my best friend today. We both concluded that too often we are asking the wrong question—“What can I do to make person A happy? Or appease person B?” When we should be asking ourselves, “What can I do to find my own happiness, or to be content?” You are the owner of your life. You are writing your story, not trying to write yourself into others. It seems so obvious– but to many of us it is a truth we are oblivious to perceive.

    1. Manish Malu says:

      Thank you so much for your appreciation and adding your thoughts…😊😊

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